On this day, we grieve the departure of a true symbol of fortitude – Lord Robert Fellowes, the esteemed uncle of Prince Harry and Prince William. With solemn hearts, we commemorate the remarkable heritage he has left behind.
A Reliable Counselor and a Guiding Light
In times of trouble and adversity, Lord Robert Fellowes proved to be a steadfast source of assistance for the royal family. Besides being wedded to Jane Fellowes, he also fulfilled the role of the late Queen’s personal aide from 1990 to 1999.
Throughout the tumultuous year of 1992, known as the “annus horribilis” for the royal family, Lord Robert stood alongside the Queen, offering invaluable direction and fortitude. From Prince Charles’s turbulent marriage to Prince Andrew’s separation and the catastrophic fire at Windsor Castle, Lord Robert remained a faithful and relied-upon consultant.
A Life of Commitment and Devotion
Born in 1941 at Sandringham House in Norfolk, Lord Robert Fellowes devoted his life to service. After completing his education at Eton College, he enlisted in the Scots Guards in 1960 and then pursued a career in the banking sector. His dedication to duty led him to the Royal Household, where he commenced as an Assistant Private Secretary in 1977. Over time, he ascended through the ranks to the position of Deputy Private Secretary and eventually assumed the mantle of Private Secretary, a role he held for an impressive 20 years. Lord Robert’s unwavering commitment was acknowledged by Queen Elizabeth II, who bestowed upon him the Royal Household Long and Faithful Service Medal.
A Devoted Spouse and Affectionate Parent
Lord Robert Fellowes was not just a figure of considerable significance within the royal family but also a devoted spouse and affectionate parent. His union with Lady Jane Fellowes at Westminster Abbey in 1978 was a moment of joy.
Lady Jane’s sister, Diana Spencer, who later became Princess Diana, served as a bridesmaid, creating an enduring memory for all. Lord Robert and Lady Jane were blessed with three children: Eleanor Ruth Fellowes, Alexander Robert Fellowes, and Laura Jane Fellowes. Through life’s vicissitudes, their family remained a cornerstone of strength and encouragement.
Warm Recollections of Princess Diana
The tragic passing of Princess Diana in 1997 deeply impacted the royal family, and Lord Robert Fellowes was no exception. In an interview with The Telegraph, he spoke warmly of her extraordinary character and conveyed empathy for the challenges she encountered.
Lord Robert comprehended that contentment can elude those facing such adversities, leaving an enduring impression of empathy and understanding.
Celebrating Lord Robert Fellowes’ Legacy
As we bid adieu to Lord Robert Fellowes, we reminisce on the profound influence he wielded on the royal family and beyond. His unswerving allegiance, benevolence, and dedication to duty will be eternally cherished. He departs, leaving a legacy of love and support that reached the lives of those in his orbit. May his soul repose in eternal tranquility.
